
On Thursday night, we were supposed to go to dinner with Craig’s former boss and the boss’s wife. A work dinner, so to speak. “7:30 at Pizzeria Mozza,” said Craig, earlier in the day.
Then, as 7:30 rolled around, Craig pulled me aside. “I told a white lie,” he said. “We’re not going out with (name redacted) and (name redacted). I’m taking you to Rustic Canyon.”
Rustic Canyon is the restaurant I’ve been most eager to try since returning to L.A. from New York back in February. The chef, Jeremy Fox, is our new neighbor here in Atwater Village. His reputation, as a chef, is stellar; back in 2008, Frank Bruni named his former restaurant, Ubuntu, “the 2nd best restaurant in the United States outside of New York.” Rustic Canyon was #1 on my “to try” list.
Of course, all of this was a little suspicious and I had questions.
“What’s this for?” I asked.
“To say thank you for taking care of the move while I was working on my movie,” said Craig.
“Ah,” I said.
“I don’t have a ring in my pocket, so don’t get your hopes up,” he joked. (We joke about getting engaged often.)
Rustic Canyon is a sunny, friendly spot (though the woman in the foreground of this picture clearly didn’t want to have her picture taken. Sorry!)
We started with the cocktails you see at the top of the post: mine, Corazon de Fresas, had Scorpion Mezcal Silver, Gaviota strawberry, fresh lime and fresh basil. Craig’s–Rosemary’s Baby–had Old Tom’s Gin, Cocchi Americano, Prosecco, and a Rosemary sprig.
The drinks hit the spot and then the food was just oh so good. The Pt. Reyes Blue Cheese Puffs with Sauce Mornay were so full of flavorful, liquified cheese, I almost wore it out as a souvenir. But I would’ve been glad to have had a souvenir of something that tasted so good.
The halibut tonnato (with pickled vegetables, capers and tarragon) and fat uncle farm’s almonds with lavender sugar & sea salt–gifts from the chef (very neighborly!)–were also wonderful. (Those almonds are addictive. They give lavender a good name.)
The pork belly terrine with violet mustard, cornichon, shallot & parsley was expertly made.
The beets and berries with creamy horseradish, fresh dill pollen and pistachio were delightful and surprising.
The Coleman green beans & stonefruit with cana de cabra goat cheese, grilled peach jam and macadamia were a highlight.
But my favorite dish of all was this deconstructed French onion soup with grilled bread, bone marrow and a really intense broth. Amazing.
The California prawns with Calabrian chili butter were excellent too (with bread to sop up the sauce, thank God).
And the ricotta gnocchi with short rib, strawberry soffrito (yes you heard that right), pine nut, and wild fennel was a far out dish.
At this point in the meal, we were a bit tipsy with cocktails, wine and food and we jokingly brought up the engagement conversation again.
“Do you want to get married?” asked Craig.
“I do,” I said.
“Ok, we’ll get married,” he said.
We’d had this conversation before. It went just like that. Then: nothing happened.
I went to the bathroom and when I came out I said, “You know, if we leave here and say to ourselves ‘we’re getting married’ but we don’t do anything about it, then we won’t get married.”
“So what are you saying?”
“I’m saying, the only way we’ll really get married is if we call our parents tomorrow and say ‘we’re getting married.’”
Dessert arrived (suggested by the chef). Pudwill Farms Blueberry tart had a sweet corn pastry cream that made it positively scream of summer.
And the frozen mint chocolate torte really tasted like a York Peppermint Patty, only better.
“Ok,” said Craig, “we can tell our parents tomorrow.”
“We can?”
“Yup.”
“So we’re engaged? For real?”
“We’re engaged.”
The next morning, I called my mom and Craig called his. Turns out dinner-with-the-boss was really our engagement dinner. Now we just have to plan a wedding.


















YAYAYAY!!! Congrats!
SHUT UP! Oh Mylanta! Congratulations to you and Craig! Oh wow! I am smiling from ear to ear and my eyes are teared up. I am so incredibly happy for you both. How did the parents take it?
yay!
Congratulations to you both! Fabulous!
Best wishes, congratulations and WOO HOO! Great engagement story!
That French Onion soup and bone marrow sounds amazing!!
So incredibly thrilled for y’all. And the story is great. Congrats! And wedding planning is the best !
Congratulations guys!! I’m looking forward to see what kind of beautiful food madness is at your wedding.
Mazel tov!! I am so happy for you guys. May you love each other and eat wonderfully for as long as you both shall live!
Congrats!!!!!!
Congrats!!
Congrats to both of you! 🙂
Congratulations, Adam and Craig!!! So happy for you. I know you have a wonderful marriage in store: full of art and food and friends and family and love. Can’t wait to hear all about your wedding plans as they unfold!
My partner and I just got engaged, too! Congratulations and happy planning!
Huge Congratulations! I saw your post on facebook and immediately jumped to your blog, I literally ran through the entire entire post so that I could read the part to who proposed and how you got engaged! That’s awesome and thank you so much for sharing it with your readers, we are excited for you guys and look forward to sharing your journey up to your marriage if you are willing to.
Yay! Congrats!
1) That dinner looks delicious, and I’d bet I would love the deconstructed onion soup too. and 2) OMG CONGRATULATIONS!!!! 🙂
Congratulations to you both!
I just skimmed through all the pictures and then started crying when I finally got to the juice. I’m so excited for you & Craig! CONGRATS!!!
Congratulations!!! I love this story and you know it still will make a great story years from now (say at your 25th wedding anniversary party). I know your years together will include lots of great food, dinner parties with friends, and, most importantly, love. Best wishes to both of you.
Yay!! Congratulations!!!!! I can’t wait to read all about the the plans and the wedding and of course the food. 🙂
Awesome! Congratulations!
Hurray! Marriage is awesome. I’m happy for you and looking forward to reading about wedding plans! You may already know this, but most bakeries will let you taste a ridiculous amount of cake if you tell them you’re planning a wedding.
CONGRATS!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Mazel Tov!! HURRAY!!!!
That is fantastic, congratulations!!
Mazel tov!!!!! So very happy for you both!!!
Your blog made me so happy today. After reading some truly bad stuff in the paper this morning, and hearing some truly bad stuff on CNN, I settled down to your blog. I am so happy for you and wish I could bake you cake.
MAZEL TOV!
Fantastic! I’m writing as a fan from Paris and I cordially invite you to get married here in Paris! I will host a brunch for both of you!
My eyes teared up too. Congratulations!
I’ve been reading your blog for years and years and have never commented, but I couldn’t resist this time. Your post made me so happy! Congratulations and best wishes!
Well that is delightful 🙂
Congratulations:)!
I’m so happy for you both. After following your stories for all these years, I feel like a family member is telling me this. Congratulations!
OMG! Congrats!!!! So happy for you both. 🙂
Hooray! Hooray! Congratulations!
Congrats
Congratulations, Adam and Craig!!! So happy for you. I know you have a wonderful marriage in store: full of art and food and friends and f
Congratulations, that is so fracking exciting! Mazal Tov to the max!
FABULOUS! Congratulations!!!
Congratulations to you and Craig!!! I’m so happy for you both and got all teared up reading this. I totally skipped to the end of your post hoping that was what I would read!
Finally 🙂 Congratulations to you both!
Yay!!!!! So very happy for the both of you and your families!
Congratulations!!!! You know you have to let us know every detail of your wedding planning, right?? 🙂 So happy for you and Craig!
Oh my gosh!!!! Congratulations. So many of my friends are getting engaged, and I have to say, I’m absolutely thrilled. What a dinner. 🙂
CONGRATULATIONS!
Congratulations to both of you!
Congratulations! Can’t wait to read all about the wedding planning!
Mazal tov! So exciting for you guys. What a lovely, understated way to share some big big news. (Dinner looks amazing, btw.) Congrats!
Mazel Tov! Congratulations!